I had the day off work last Thursday so I thought it would be fun to invite some friends over for morning tea and a little gossip.
While they were here we chatted about a lot of things, from politics and world events to movies and fashion trends.
I also thought it would be a great opportunity to get the honest opinions of everyday women on matters such as feminization, penis size and how they believe a less than adequate "male" should behave in the presence of women.
It turned into quite the discussion, and some of their views surprised even me! Many of my friends are quite reserved, almost prudish to a certain extent, so to hear such candid accounts from them was quite the experience. Before we even began, I just knew it would be worth transcribing every word for the benefit of all my little followers.
I should preface this with a little introduction for each of the women who attended the discussion. This is simply to give you a better sense of who they are as people, which will make reading their detailed accounts and experiences a lot more interesting.
First to arrive was Melissa, a wonderful lady aged 32 and one of my dearest friends. Melissa separated from her husband in late 2010 and is currently dating a cute guy in his mid-late 30's named John, who I was a little disappointed couldn't join us on the day as I had baked a yummy batch of brownies just for him.
Melissa was shortly followed by my good friend Cheryl, 42, and her daughter Tammy who is barely of age and one of the prettiest girls I know, second only perhaps to her beautiful mother. Tammy is in her late teens but has the appearance and innocent demeanor of a far younger girl, which almost made it a little awkward for us when we discussed these somewhat taboo topics at first, but surprisingly she was very open and (brutally) honest with us about her feelings, and I know she will be reading this and I would like to thank her for the honesty and maturity she showed us all.
We made friendly chitchat for a few minutes till Becky, 23, arrived much to the relief of Tammy who was happy to have another younger girl around.
Becky is the niece of an older friend of mine who could not be there on the day, so it was lovely to get to know her a little better. She certainly fits the stereotype of the blonde bimbo physically, but she is deceptively intelligent underneath the pretty blue eyes, perfect skin and gorgeous body.
Finally, one of my oldest friends by the name of Denise showed up and it was lovely to see her again after so much time. She is now 46 years old but has the features of a much younger lady, not to mention the hunky boyfriend of a much younger lady...
We enjoyed some scones and cups of tea and talked about a variety of issues for a good 30 minutes or so, which is when it dawned on me what a perfect time it would be to get the genuine opinions of a bunch of regular women from several different age groups. I had made a couple of hints earlier towards discussing some more taboo subjects, so as not to shock any of my more prudish guests, and I must say I was pleasantly surprised by their willingness to share their true feelings on every matter we discussed.
I hope the above introduction will serve to paint a better picture of this group of women, and perhaps you can learn a little something about real women and their real feelings which society so often tries to censor or sugarcoat. There will be no sweetening of their words here so if you are sensitive or get your feelings hurt easily (and fall under the umbrella of true sissy/failed male) I advise you not to read any further.
If, on the other hand, you have braced yourself for a long overdue reality check, then please proceed.
Gracie: I think it would be fun for us all to have a little chat about sex and sexuality, not to mention some more taboo topics like the appropriate terms for so-called guys who simply don't have what it takes to function in society as true bona fide males. What I'd like each of you to do is name some terms that pop into your head when I talk about people who were born male but just don't have any of the appropriate traits and are in fact more feminine than masculine...
Melissa: Um, pussy? I dunno, that sounds a little strange to be honest with you. (laughs)
Cheryl: I think I know the type of person you're talking about Gracie as I've had first hand experience with one of them myself. I don't like to call people names, but gosh, some of them are just so over-the-top it's pathetic.
Tammy: Sissy? Or faggot. Um...
Gracie: Yes Tammy, you are correct. Sissy is the term I was looking for! Well done sweetie, I didn't think a girl of your age would ever have even heard of such a thing.
Denise: I actually thought "faggot" was the correct term... (everyone laughs)
Gracie: Yes, faggot is also acceptable but sissy is the "official" term. Speaking of sissies, have any of you ever had a sexual encounter with someone who fits that description?
Tammy: Wouldn't that be like, impossible?
Cheryl: Some poor women actually get involved with these sissies without realizing they're not men until it's far too late!
Becky: I had a close encounter a few years ago but luckily I dodged that bullet. One of my friends had this brother who was kind of shy and standoffish, and she set me up with him as like, I dunno, a way to boost his confidence or something. I was never attracted to him in the slightest but I just felt sooo sorry for him.
We went out a couple times and he was pretty nice but did absolutely nothing for me in the turn on department. On our second date I drank too much, mostly out of boredom at how lame he was. I thought maybe I could ditch him and get what I needed from a real guy, but no matter what I tried I just couldn't shake him and I didn't have the heart to just tell him to fuck off. (everyone laughs)
Anyway, somehow we ended up back at my place and I'd been so desperate for a real guy all night that I thought what the hell, at the very least he might be okay with his tongue or whatever, but even that was too much to hope for with this loser.
By the time I was undressed and looking pretty fucking hot if I do say so myself, he was just standing there like a little girl with his flaccid wee-wee between his legs like a fucking pathetic faggot. I almost threw up right there but I thought maybe he would just take longer to get hard than a regular guy, so I waited another couple minutes and I swear he was on the verge of tears at one point.
Long story short, I got pissed off and got off the bed and went to the bathroom to freshen up. I came back not even two minutes later and this little faggot was on his knees with my panties on his little dicklet, which had miraculously managed to get hard at this stage, and my pantyhose stuffed into his faggot mouth.
I was so disgusted by his utter lack of manhood that I swear I almost hit him but thought that would be like the equivalent of a man hitting a woman, that's how much of a pussy this faggot was.
Tammy: Oh my god, that sounds horrible... (consoles Becky with a hug)
Gracie: I am so sorry you had to go through that Becky. I'm sure you had no idea what you were getting yourself into when your friend set you up with her "brother" who turned out to be more like a quivering little sister. That must have been so traumatic for you to have to be around such a true sissy without even a word of warning to prepare you for the horrific absence of masculinity that she showed to you. Also sweetie, I must correct you on one thing. You should never refer to a sissy using male terms, they are far closer to girls than they are men, so you should always refer to them as such.
Denise: That is so sad, poor little sissy couldn't even get her little nubby hard without rubbing a pretty girl's panties all over it. (laughs)
Cheryl: If anything like that happened to my Tammy, I would be beside myself with anger. If there's anyone who deserves a real man, it's her.
Tammy: Aww, thanks Mom. (Cheryl & Tammy hug and bond for a moment)
Gracie: It should come as no surprise that the sissy Becky described in that ghastly tale was less than well-endowed. This is a frighteningly common trait among true sissies. I would estimate that a solid 90% of them have absolutely minuscule little things between their legs. What do you girls think of when you picture a "guy" with a very small penis?
Tammy: (laughs loudly)
Becky: Jesus, I don't even want to think about it, it just brings up gross memories of that faggot I got naked in front of.
Melissa: I think "Awww...", then I just feel a little sad for them...
Cheryl: They obviously aren't any good to us sexually with those soft little thingies, but I definitely think that they can be used for our benefit in many other ways. For example, I would love to have a little "sissy" around the house to just take care of chores and housework that I don't feel like doing. I think most of them would gladly do your laundry for free, as long as you let them play with the contents of the basket occasionally (everyone laughs)
Tammy: Ewww... (laughs) I don't want any faggot going near my panties, especially the ones that I'd be wearing when I'm around guys I like cos pathetic sissy faggots don't deserve to taste what comes out of me when I'm around real men.
Cheryl: Oh no sweetie, I would never let one of them near you in a million years. You deserve a real man with a real penis.
Gracie: Aww, it's so lovely that this discussion has brought a mother and daughter closer together.
Gracie: Moving on now, let's play a little word association game, taking turns clockwise around the room. I'll say a word or phrase, and starting with Melissa, you'll all take turns saying the first thing that comes into your head.
Tammy: Ooh, this should be fun! (laughs)
(brief chatter takes place that I failed to transcribe prior to the Word Association game beginning)
Gracie: Real Man...
Melissa: Big cock. (everyone laughs)
Gracie: Small penis...
Gracie: Multiple orgasms...
Denise: Real man.
Gracie: Ultimate fantasy...
Gracie: Worst nightmare...
Melissa: Small cock. (laughs)
Gracie: Most important quality in a man...
Tammy: Dick size.
Gracie: Pink frillies...
Cheryl: Sissy faggot.
Gracie: Husband material...
Denise: Big and manly.
Becky: Hard cock.
Gracie: OK, that will do. Thank you for playing along girls, that worked out just as I had hoped it would!
Tammy: Wow, that was fun! (everyone laughs)
(Tammy and Becky exclaim "Yay!" in unison and everyone laughs)
Gracie: I'm glad you are so enthusiastic girls. Now, what are the most important qualities for a man to have?
Denise: He should be strong, first and foremost. He should also be able to take care of me and make me feel safe and secure in his big masculine arms.
Cheryl: Yeah. (nods) I like a guy who can really dominate me and just throw me around the bedroom, or any other area he wants to ravage me.
Tammy: Big penises are definitely superior to average ones, let alone worthless small dicks. (laughs)
Becky: Not only big cock, but big everything. I like a real mountain of a man who can make me wet through mere eye contact.
Tammy: Oh my god, I know what you mean. There's this one guy at my work, every time he passes by my desk I feel afraid to stand up after, like I'm just going to be dripping everywhere! (everyone laughs)
Cheryl: I think that's a genetic thing sweetie as I was always much the same.
Melissa: I like my current BF, and mostly I love his big cock. He is just way better than my husband whose penis was average to say the least.
Becky: Also, in terms of attitude - I like arrogant guys who treat me like shit way more than so called nice guys, also known as pussies. (laughs)
Tammy: Yep I agree, nothing worse than a guy who thinks being a little faggot around you is somehow a turn on. I like guys who are confident in themselves and know their big dick can satisfy me in ways that inferior "males" could never dream of.
Denise: So true, and I'm glad to see that there are young women out there who aren't afraid to be forthright and open about their preferences for real men with real cocks.
Gracie: Yes, it's always lovely to see, and hopefully one day all women will be able to be more honest about their desire for real men without being unfairly looked upon as a slut just for liking sex.
Cheryl: That would truly be wonderful...
(brief chatter amongst the group that I failed to transcribe, plus a short bathroom break to freshen up)
Gracie: Now that we've discussed the appealing and attractive qualities in a man, let's talk about our biggest turn offs.
Tammy: Aside from being a broke loser, lacking masculinity is the worst thing I can imagine.
Becky: Yep, nothing is worse than a little faggot trying to be a man. If they just wanted to be my friend, maybe buy me shit or take care of the chores then I'd be all for it but I'm not letting any mincing faggot near my pussy ever again, I would rather be brutally gang raped than go through that again.
Cheryl: Strongly agreed, and I know my little Tammy would feel the same way on that one Becky.
Denise: As Becky mentioned earlier, "nice" guys just drive me up the wall. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a man who tries to act "nice" to women cos he's too much of a faggot to get away with being an asshole like a real man would.
Melissa: Skinny guys definitely are a turn off and when I see one I just think "Oh my god, what a faggot" almost as a natural instinct.
Becky: Oh my god, yes! Skinny guys should fucking eat something cos there is nothing masculine about being a rake, and I don't want to have a skinny faggot mincing all over me with his limp writhing dicklet. Like I said before, they can be my little faggot friend if they want, but nothing sexual whatsoever, unless having my real man's load spit from my mouth into theirs counts. (everyone laughs)
Tammy: Skinny guys are okay as little friends like Becky said but no way would I ever date one. Real guys are big and buff and know how to fuck pussy hard.
Gracie: Speaking of weight and body types, what do you think of fat guys? Are they more inclined towards sissification than guys that are in good shape?
Becky: (sighs exhaustedly) Fat guys are just soft and feminine in a way that real guys could never be. I cannot take a fat guy seriously as a man, not in a million years. Though it would be fun to dress a fat faggot up in one of my big sister's outfits and have it walk around town with its little bitch tits hanging out like the fucking freak of nature it is.
Tammy: Yeah, fat sissies can be my friend but I just don't want them to touch me, unless we're doing each others makeup.
Cheryl: My Tammy is far too good to let a fat mincing sissy near her, but maybe we could keep one as a little pet, put a tail on it and call it piggy. (everyone laughs)
Gracie: Oh, that does sound like fun Cheryl.
Melissa: Lots of fun!
Gracie: Now, to wrap up as I've kept you long enough, please describe as succinctly as possible how real men make you feel as opposed to little sissies.
Tammy: A real man makes me feel vulnerable - a little nervous - and eager to please him. Sissies make me feel embarrassed for them, and almost sympathetic, but mostly disgusted by their lack of manhood.
Melissa: Real guys are what I live for, they make my heart skip a beat and I think about them all the time. Faggots and sissies rarely enter my thoughts, but when they do I simply laugh then go back to thinking about real men.
Becky: I love legitimate men and have such respect for them, I just want to please them and be obedient to them in the hopes that one day I'll make a good housewife. Sissies just make me shudder, or laugh, or both. If a sissy knows her true place and doesn't try to have sex with me, I'll let her be my friend, but otherwise "fuck off faggot" pretty much sums it up.
Cheryl: Real men should be adored and respected, sissies get ignored and rejected. A sissy has no place in the bedroom with a woman, unless said sissy is there to change the sheets after the mess her and her lover made the night before.
Denise: I will do practically anything to please real men, and I'll do pretty much whatever it takes to avoid "sissies" or faggots as I prefer to call them, since they're just worthless as males. I wouldn't mind having one around just to have something my BF can fuck when he needs the release and I'm on my period or too tired, but other than that I have no use for them whatsoever.
Gracie: So, it certainly sounds like it's quite universally accepted that real men deserve respect and admiration from women, whilst the most a sissy could ever hope to receive is our contempt and abuse, and maybe a list of chores to do while we're serving our real men.
I am so glad you all joined me today and I never imagined that you would all be so open and honest without sugarcoating a thing, so thank you sincerely for that. I am certain the generous offering of your firmly held beliefs will be looked upon as priceless and invaluable to the entire sissy community.
Cheryl: Gracie darling, I assure you the pleasure was all ours! (everyone laughs and nods)
Gracie: Any final words of advice for any true sissies out there who could perhaps do with a little guidance?
Melissa: (awkward pause) Just be yourself I guess. As pathetic as sissies are, they should still be who they are. They should also know their place, and not expect to be treated like equals.
Becky: Yeah, just don't try to be a man cos it's like watching a fucking trainwreck. If sissies were more open about their uselessness I think I would find it a lot easier to tolerate them as I wouldn't feel like I'd been deceived by their transparent facade of manhood.
Tammy: Sissies can be my friend but nothing more. And make sure you look pretty at all times cos you are competing with real girls and why would a man choose a mincing faggot over an actual girl unless the faggot makes itself as pretty as it can possibly be? Also, sissies should respect real men. (everyone nods in agreement)
Cheryl: I echo all of the sentiments the girls have expressed and I would add that sissies should make an extraordinary amount of effort in keeping up their physical appearance. If they want men to find them attractive, it's vital they wear the right amount of makeup and wear nice outfits that show off their feminine bodies and really highlight their lack of masculinity. Sissies should definitely also offer to help women in any way they can, whether that be chores, cooking and cleaning or even satisfying a woman's husband when she is not in the mood. Also, a nice pair of breasts would be invaluable in helping a sissy find a man.
Denise: Sissies should always know their place, and never think they are comparable to real men in any way, shape or form. They should also grow a pair of balls and stop being dickless faggots but I don't see that happening any time in the foreseeable future. (everyone laughs)
A huge thank you to each and every one of these lovely ladies who were so happy to offer their thoughts on some quite controversial and rarely discussed topics.
I'm sure all good sissies who read this may feel compelled to leave a pretty comment to show their gratitude to the nice women for their time, and I'm positive that all my friends would be happy to know their words are helping sissies come to terms with who they are.
Now, feel free to share your little thoughts with a comment below sweetie.
Did you agree with what the nice women said? Of course you did, that goes without saying.
Make sure you show your appreciation for their time as they will likely read this at some stage and it would be nice for them to see that their time did not go to waste, and maybe they'll even see that not all sissies are nasty little faggots such as the one poor Becky had that traumatic encounter with, and some sissies can be sweet little angels who deserve nothing but our love and friendship.
Love from Goddess Gracie xx